I am a writer. True, that right at this minute I am not writing much. If you could see the house you would understand. I am currently moving the study and studio into the front of the building. Into what was the large living room. This means that I am creating a snug and dining… Continue reading The Role of Nature in Coping with Chronic Illness
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Understanding Grief: Love, Guilt, and Self-Care
The author reflects on grief and love after losing Roland, comparing grief to waves washing over land. They describe their emotional journey, transitioning from holding a metaphorical sphere of love to storing it in a bucket while grappling with guilt and anxiety. The focus shifts to creating a personal space and embracing individuality.
Creating Accessible Living Spaces in a Bungalow
The author discusses adapting their bungalow to suit their disability needs while minimizing maintenance. Key changes include renovating the bathroom, simplifying the kitchen, and redesigning living spaces for functionality. They prioritize creating a studio and flexible guest accommodations, ultimately favoring practicality and comfort over unnecessary guest rooms. The transformation aims for a cozy, manageable home.
Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
I live with pain. Over COVID Roland and I realised that I wasn't moving well, that one hip was causing discomfort. At the time I thought it was a lot of pain. Looking back, it was maybe a 2 compared to what I experience now. At the time though over the counter stuff was not… Continue reading Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
It is strange. I feel that my life can be split into three distinct times. Before Roland, with Roland and after Roland. If you are new here, I ought to say that Roland was my husband. He passed away suddenly on Boxing Day 2023. Before Roland I was a person driven by something intangible. Something… Continue reading From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Why should I start writing the blog again? I found myself talking to my embroidery because I don't have a Roland to sound out what I am feeling. That and hugs have to be the worst. I miss both so much. So, I thought I would write it down. But then I wander if I… Continue reading From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
I am leaving my house. Yes, the house me and R designed and adapted to be our forever home. With him gone I do find a huge comfort in the memories I have. The wall he built and the way the biofolds angle so that they will get more sun. Everything is just as we… Continue reading Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
THE THREE
What are three objects you couldn't live without? A pen. A pencil. A sketchbook. With those I can create and work. With those I can disappear into another world. With those I can stim. With those I can live. I can smile. I can cry. I can laugh. I can write. I can draw. A… Continue reading THE THREE
Ladders
I'm not sure I like them but they seem to be everywhere. We have one in the spare room so that the builder can get out on the roof. Yes, he is finally getting there with finishing the build. Although he is taking an awful long time - a very long time. I think he's… Continue reading Ladders
Odd socks
I always thought I might be an odd sock gal, one in green and the other pink... Feet of a different colour that walked a different route. Except lately all my socks have matched... My sock draw is a colourful collection of fuzzy lovelies and silky stockings, possibly with one fishnet pushed to the back… Continue reading Odd socks
Kate Murray - Cleaver 