I was thinking about my school years the other day. In particular the problems my parents faced having an autistic child and not knowing they had one. Can you imagine that? Just think of the behaviour a child in full meltdown can give you constantly, every day. Even at 23, my mum received a phone… Continue reading Navigating Life with Autism: A Personal Journey
Category: Home tales
The Role of Nature in Coping with Chronic Illness
I am a writer. True, that right at this minute I am not writing much. If you could see the house you would understand. I am currently moving the study and studio into the front of the building. Into what was the large living room. This means that I am creating a snug and dining… Continue reading The Role of Nature in Coping with Chronic Illness
Understanding Grief: Love, Guilt, and Self-Care
The author reflects on grief and love after losing Roland, comparing grief to waves washing over land. They describe their emotional journey, transitioning from holding a metaphorical sphere of love to storing it in a bucket while grappling with guilt and anxiety. The focus shifts to creating a personal space and embracing individuality.
Creating Accessible Living Spaces in a Bungalow
The author discusses adapting their bungalow to suit their disability needs while minimizing maintenance. Key changes include renovating the bathroom, simplifying the kitchen, and redesigning living spaces for functionality. They prioritize creating a studio and flexible guest accommodations, ultimately favoring practicality and comfort over unnecessary guest rooms. The transformation aims for a cozy, manageable home.
Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
I live with pain. Over COVID Roland and I realised that I wasn't moving well, that one hip was causing discomfort. At the time I thought it was a lot of pain. Looking back, it was maybe a 2 compared to what I experience now. At the time though over the counter stuff was not… Continue reading Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
It is strange. I feel that my life can be split into three distinct times. Before Roland, with Roland and after Roland. If you are new here, I ought to say that Roland was my husband. He passed away suddenly on Boxing Day 2023. Before Roland I was a person driven by something intangible. Something… Continue reading From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Why should I start writing the blog again? I found myself talking to my embroidery because I don't have a Roland to sound out what I am feeling. That and hugs have to be the worst. I miss both so much. So, I thought I would write it down. But then I wander if I… Continue reading From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
I am leaving my house. Yes, the house me and R designed and adapted to be our forever home. With him gone I do find a huge comfort in the memories I have. The wall he built and the way the biofolds angle so that they will get more sun. Everything is just as we… Continue reading Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
3 am
Well, there we are then. Due to a flare in one of my conditions I am anaemic and with anaemia comes insomnia. Hence the fact I am sat at 3 am watching a horror and wondering if I ought to take an extra painkiller because my legs are restless. Restless leg is a symptom of… Continue reading 3 am
Sadness and grief
I am a doctor now. And on Boxing day R, the love of my life died. I haven't been writing for a variety of reasons but the loss of R was enough to stop me in my tracks. In 15 minutes my world collapsed. My present and my future. The family gathered and I screamed… Continue reading Sadness and grief
Kate Murray - Cleaver 