I was thinking about my school years the other day. In particular the problems my parents faced having an autistic child and not knowing they had one. Can you imagine that? Just think of the behaviour a child in full meltdown can give you constantly, every day. Even at 23, my mum received a phone… Continue reading Navigating Life with Autism: A Personal Journey
Author: Kate
The Role of Nature in Coping with Chronic Illness
I am a writer. True, that right at this minute I am not writing much. If you could see the house you would understand. I am currently moving the study and studio into the front of the building. Into what was the large living room. This means that I am creating a snug and dining… Continue reading The Role of Nature in Coping with Chronic Illness
Understanding Grief: Love, Guilt, and Self-Care
The author reflects on grief and love after losing Roland, comparing grief to waves washing over land. They describe their emotional journey, transitioning from holding a metaphorical sphere of love to storing it in a bucket while grappling with guilt and anxiety. The focus shifts to creating a personal space and embracing individuality.
Creating Accessible Living Spaces in a Bungalow
The author discusses adapting their bungalow to suit their disability needs while minimizing maintenance. Key changes include renovating the bathroom, simplifying the kitchen, and redesigning living spaces for functionality. They prioritize creating a studio and flexible guest accommodations, ultimately favoring practicality and comfort over unnecessary guest rooms. The transformation aims for a cozy, manageable home.
Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
I live with pain. Over COVID Roland and I realised that I wasn't moving well, that one hip was causing discomfort. At the time I thought it was a lot of pain. Looking back, it was maybe a 2 compared to what I experience now. At the time though over the counter stuff was not… Continue reading Art as Pain Relief: My Experience with Arthritis
An Autitistic Hyper Focus: Tritium in the Pacific
Effects on Food and Environment *These are my own thoughts and I have tried to fact check but I could be wrong. Politely let me know in the comments and I will change the piece if I agree. In 2011 there was a disaster at the Fukashima Daiichi nuclear plant. As a side note there… Continue reading An Autitistic Hyper Focus: Tritium in the Pacific
From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
It is strange. I feel that my life can be split into three distinct times. Before Roland, with Roland and after Roland. If you are new here, I ought to say that Roland was my husband. He passed away suddenly on Boxing Day 2023. Before Roland I was a person driven by something intangible. Something… Continue reading From Grief to Growth: Reclaiming Life After a Loved One’s Passing
From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Why should I start writing the blog again? I found myself talking to my embroidery because I don't have a Roland to sound out what I am feeling. That and hugs have to be the worst. I miss both so much. So, I thought I would write it down. But then I wander if I… Continue reading From Embroidery to Blogging: Finding My Voice Again
Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
I am leaving my house. Yes, the house me and R designed and adapted to be our forever home. With him gone I do find a huge comfort in the memories I have. The wall he built and the way the biofolds angle so that they will get more sun. Everything is just as we… Continue reading Embracing Change: Leaving My City Home for the Countryside
From Silence to Expression: The Path after Grief
I disappeared. Didn't mean to, it just happened. Sometimes the grief and the pain gets too much and all you can do is protect yourself and withdraw from the world. That is what I did. Vanished to heal, if you can, from grief. I prefer to think about it as time I was learning to… Continue reading From Silence to Expression: The Path after Grief